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I’m not exactly quiet, and I’m definitely not the ‘submissive girl’ that many people see South Korean girls as. But somehow, my personality became a problem when I started dating men in South Korea at the age of 20. I thought, is my outgoing personality — which was attractive to them in the beginning — an obstacle to developing a stable relationship? A bunch of my girlfriends had similar worries when dating South Korean men.

Many men approached me, expressing an interest in my outgoing personality. But sooner or later, they started to complain about things that energize my life, what I think are important, like interacting with people and having fun at interesting social gatherings. The biggest source of complaint was the irony of men applying different standards on their female friends and “girlfriend.” Some guys I knew loved hanging out with girls whom they called cool and funny — for example, girls who could drink two bottles of soju straight.

But it’s not like comparing apples to apples, when you look at the dynamics of power in society.

But I told them, “I will take your picture down but only because I think you’ve learned a very important lesson and I hope you don’t message anybody else in this manner.” You usually don’t have to deal with him again. One submission said she blocked a guy and he messaged her again twice from two other accounts.

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Not all men send these messages, but every woman online has received something like this.

Plenty of Fish, Tinder and OKCupid, plus a lot of crazy Facebook messages — even messages from people they’re not friends with, in their “other” inbox. Straight men don’t walk around in public being afraid that women are going to beat them up or catcall them.

That’s not even counting the unsolicited dick pics. I consider unsolicited dick pics to be sexual harassment and definitely hostile. I’ve gotten a few angry messages in my inbox or on Facebook, but they’ve mostly been asking, Why are you making us feel bad? I don’t technically know the legality of it, so I took their pictures down.

The situation is classic—he pursues you, so you lean in. You become like a dog with a bone, unwilling to relinquish what you want.

You frantically search for the man inside him who was "hot" for you. So, your problem becomes how to get him to pursue you like he did before.